Succeed at your Goals 95% of the Time

Keys to success imageResolutions Don’t Work but Written Goals DO!

For leaders and high performers, accountability and written commitments aren’t just motivational- they’re proven performance drivers. The research is that by 3 months, 70% have failed at their New Year’s resolutions.  But that doesn’t mean goals aren’t important.

Multiple peer-reviewed studies have found how to make your goals work for you.  Dominican University of California did a study and they determined that written goals do work, especially if you have an accountability partner.  Dr. Gail Matthews found that you are 42% more likely to achieve your goals if you write them down and repeat them.

Dr. Halverson, a psychologist, learned that if you decide in advance where and when you’re going to take specific action on your goal and follow-through, you double and triple your chances for success.  Writing down your goals daily can be a powerful exercise in reminding your subconscious what you need to focus on.

But the most powerful study of all is from ASTD, the American Society for Training and Development. The study found that if you have written goals and an accountability partner and you commit and check in with that partner about your goals weekly, your chances of success increase 95%!! That’s amazing. Many of the leaders I work with integrate these accountability habits as part of their professional growth and performance development through our Executive Presence Training. (Thanks to the wonderful Marie Forleo for sharing this.)

So if you want this to be your year- Write your goals down, share them with an accountability partner, and check in weekly on your progress- the research shows this dramatically increases your likelihood of success..

These accountability principles are at the core of how I work with executive clients in Leadership Resilience Coaching. High-performing leaders don’t just set goals — they build the structures and partnerships that make follow-through inevitable. If you’re ready to lead with that kind of clarity and consistency, let’s talk.

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See Yourself Succeeding with a Dream Collage!

Dream Collage Examples for Students, Adults, and Leaders

See Yourself Succeeding with a Dream Collage. Business success Dream Collage

In a world of constant distraction and pressure, visualization remains one of the simplest and most effective ways to regain focus, direction, and momentum. A dream collage, sometimes called a vision board, is more than a craft project. It is a visual blueprint for the life you want to build.

I created my first dream collage in 1989. Within two years, every major goal on that board had become reality. That experience convinced me this tool works when used intentionally.

For leaders and high achievers, visualization is often the first step in building clarity and long-term resilience. If you want to understand how vision connects to sustained performance under pressure, explore our Leadership Resilience Hub.

What Is a Dream Collage?

A dream collage is a visual representation of your goals, values, and aspirations. It combines images, words, and symbols that reflect what you want to create in your personal life, career, finances, health, and relationships.

Unlike abstract goal-setting, a dream collage makes your vision visible. What you see repeatedly, you begin to believe. What you believe, you begin to act upon.

Dream Collage Examples

Student Dream Collage

Student Collage Example
  • Images of desired colleges or universities
  • Career paths of interest
  • Inspirational quotes about perseverance
  • Travel destinations
  • A photo at the center

Many teachers assign dream collages in Grade 10 or high school leadership classes. Students often report increased clarity about their future and stronger motivation afterward.

2. Personal Life Dream Collage Example

Personal Collage Example
  • Healthy relationships
  • Fitness and wellness goals
  • Home environment
  • Spiritual growth
  • Financial freedom

3. Professional Dream Collage Example

Professional Collage Example
  • Speaking engagements
  • Business growth milestones
  • Revenue targets
  • Leadership impact
  • Work-life balance

4. Leadership Dream Collage Example

Leadership Collage Example
  • Team culture values
  • Organizational growth goals
  • Community impact
  • Personal development milestones
  • Clear vision statements

Leaders who visualize the future clearly make more deliberate decisions today.

How to Create a Dream Collage That Actually Works

Step 1: Gather Supplies

  • Poster board or foam board
  • Magazines or printed images
  • Scissors
  • Adhesive or spray mount
  • Markers or embellishments

Step 2: Clarify Your Intentions

Before cutting anything out, ask yourself:

  • What do I want my life to look like in three years?
  • Who am I becoming?
  • What values guide me?

Step 3: Choose Images That Evoke Emotion

Select images and words that create energy, not obligation. If it feels heavy, it does not belong.

Step 4: Place Yourself at the Center

Include a photo of yourself in the middle. This is about your life, not someone else's highlight reel.

Step 5: Display It Daily

Put it somewhere visible. Take a photo and keep it on your phone. Review it regularly. Visualization works through repetition.

Why Dream Collages Work

Visualization strengthens neural pathways associated with goals. When your brain sees something repeatedly, it begins to treat it as familiar and achievable.

Dream collages also reduce overwhelm. When your long-term vision is clear, daily decisions become easier. This is one reason visualization is foundational to leadership resilience.

If you are feeling stuck, burned out, or unclear about your next chapter, structured clarity can make the difference between drifting and leading.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Copying someone else's goals
  • Making it too crowded
  • Hiding it away
  • Sharing it with negative people
  • Creating it once and never revisiting it

Classroom or Team Activity Version

Dream collages work exceptionally well in classrooms, corporate retreats, and leadership workshops.

  • Have participants present their board to small groups
  • Ask what one action they will take in the next 30 days
  • Revisit boards quarterly

This simple exercise builds clarity, ownership, and forward momentum.

Ready to Build a Bigger Vision?

Visualization strengthens neural pathways associated with goals. When your brain sees something repeatedly, it begins to treat it as familiar and achievable.

Vision creates direction. Resilience sustains execution. If you are exploring structured development approaches and want to understand how leadership resilience coaching differs from traditional executive coaching, compare the two approaches here.

Creating a dream collage is the first step. Sustaining that vision under pressure is the next.

If you are leading through growth, change, or burnout risk, structured coaching helps align vision with consistent action.

Explore Leadership Resilience Coaching


Now is the time to begin.
If you can see it clearly, you can build it deliberately.

Feed Your Brain Right

A Healthy Brain Impacts Everything

http://www.dreamstime.com/royalty-free-stock-photography-hard-day-image22576797Believe it or not, your brain is key to everything you do.  Your body couldn’t function without your brain, your decisions, communication and life choices couldn’t happen without your brain.  You can’t be truly happy or Fired Up! without a healthy brain.  And your brain has everything to do with stress.  Worry, anxiety, fear, sleeplessness- all related to our brains. Supporting brain health through sleep, nutrition, and movement strengthens clarity and decision-making, which are essential to leadership resilience under pressure. We take our brain for granted and Dr. Daniel Amen, brain specialist, says that’s a big mistake.  Here’s some food for thought:

the more you weigh, the smaller and less effective your brain– yikes!

• damage to the front of your brain hurts decision-making for the rest of your life, so that’s why helmets for skiers, bikers, etc are so critical for both adults and children

• less than 7 hours of sleep means low blood flow to the brain: you can’t think right.  Get at least 7 hours!

Stress Tip: Feed Your Brain the Right Activities & Food

You already know that ice cream, processed foods, sugary white foods are bad for you,
on so many levels.  They impact the way you handle stress, they impact your energy and blood sugar levels.  You can’t be motivated and happy with a poor diet.  Brain food is a healthy diet:

• lots of raw fruits and vegetables
• small protein meals throughout the day
• nuts and protein snacks at afternoon meetings to improve mental clarity.

Low blood sugar = poor decision-making.

Exercise is important, but include weight training twice a week.  The stronger you are as you age, the healthier your mind.  And do coordination exercises each week- ping pond, tennis, dancing are all great.

 

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Embrace Your Blessings

This is a sad week for my family.  We lost a nephew at 18 and our sister is having major surgery on Monday.  But in the midst of the pain of loss, I am reminded how fortunate we are- to have each other, to have homes and food, to have the freedoms that this great country of America provides.

There are so many who don’t have that much. We were fortunate to participate in a drive for Community Connections, a terrific non-profit here in Jacksonville Fl that prevents poverty and homelessness.  The Thanksgiving drive provides holiday food and fixings for hundreds of families, and brighten what might otherwise be a very sad and hungry time. Choosing gratitude during difficult moments helps people stay grounded and emotionally steady, reinforcing leadership resilience in times of loss, stress, and uncertainty.

So this season, truly embrace your blessings.  I count my friends, my kitties, my work, my wonderful husband, my garden and God as great gifts.  Notice how not one of those was materially based.  We have so much when we have each other.  I am grateful forall of you and wish you joy, love and peace this season.

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What You Can Learn from Michael J. Fox’s Optimism

Your Attitude Can Determine Your Happiness

 

In a recent article in Good Housekeeping, Michael J. Fox discussed his Parkinson’s disease and his return to television.  He is someone I have long admired and I love his insights and optimism.

While he had  tough time 20 years ago when he originally learned of his disease and turned to alcohol, his wife Tracy snapped him out of it.

When discussing how he lives his life with his family today, he describes his zero tolerance for negativity and complaining.  He tells the anecdote of the floods in Mozambique, where a woman was in labor.  To save her child’s life, she climbed a tree and had the baby in the tree.   So whenever one of his kids whines about something, he says  “A lady had a baby in a tree- whaddaya got?”

Optimism can save your life

I don’t know if Michael has always been an optimist, but it seems to have been his style for the past 20 years that he has dealt with Parkinson’s.  He probably knows this: optimists live seven years longer than pessimists, according to a study done at Yale University.  Those who viewed aging from a positive perspective live on average 7.5 years longer than those who did not.  So you can add nearly a full decade to your life by having a sunnier perspective!  Michael has added two!

Next time you’re upset, reference Michael J Fox’s “A lady had a baby in a tree- whaddaya got?”  Change perspective.  Start looking on the positive and see what a difference it makes in your life.

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Dramatically Improve Your Brand

How to Improve Your Brand
 

photo from Erica Benson

I recently had the honor of serving on a marketing panel for Women Business Owners. It became clear that many people don’t understand what their brand really is. Here are the core, some of which you may not have considered. 

 Corporate Identity 
This includes:
your logo
logomark
theme line
corporate colors (PMS, CMYK, RGB)
font (no more than 2)
graphic standard
photos always associated with your company. 
 
In the logo below, the top graphic is a logomark.  The logo is the entire graphic with the words attached.
 
  
• Theme line / positioning statements   In the logo above, which we designed for Selander and Assoc, the theme line Where People are as Important as the Numbers”  tells you who they work with and the next line tells you what they do.  Your positioning statement should do the same thing, with some kind of adjective or positive tone. 
 
• Consistent corporate image everywhere  Same colors, same font, same artwork, same theme everywhere. In my logo below, the red (PMS 185) and purpley blue colors(PMS 2685)  are always used and show up in all my marketing .
Be sure yours is consistent in:
  • ads
  • brochures
  • websites
  • ezines
  • business cards
  • social media
  • videos
  • podcasts/ radio
  • commercials 
  • car wraps, truck art
  • signage
  • promo items, shirts, mugs, etc.
• Public behavior of you, your co-workers and your employees   A post of your people drunk at a bar may lead prospects to think your company is unreliable.  If you behave badly in a public setting, it can ruin your image.  (Think Reese Witherspoon.) 
 
• Customer service complaints Handling customer complaints is also part of your brand, which is whyyou should monitor social media or have an RSS feed with the company name and product names.
Anytime a complaint shows up, try to resolve the situation in a positive manner.  And if the comment is on google maps, ask happy satisfied customers to comment there. 
 
Recently a large company  blithely opened a Facebook page inviting feedback only to have hundreds of angry and dissatisfied customers rant about their lousy service.  They took the page down.
 
Your brand is so much more than just your logo.  It is the image and visible presence of your business.
 
Remember, it takes years to build a reputation and minutes to destroy it. How leaders show up publicly, communicate consistently, and handle customer interactions directly shapes brand perception and reflects executive presence in action.
 
If you have any questions, email me at orders@firedupnow.com.  (For those of you who don’t know- I own a 30 yr ad agency, too.)
 
Happy marketing
Snowden
 

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The Right Way to Ask for Referrals

Marketing Tip:  Suggest Groups and Connections

When money is tight and you need new business, do three things. Continue to provide excellent service to your existing customers, far above what they pay for, ask how you can help them and then ask for referrals.

Shaking hands after disagreement to relieve stressCheck and make sure you have happy clients and when discussing how pleased they are, use that time to ask if they would be willing to spread the word about your product or service to colleagues or associates.

The key, according to referral expert Bill Cates, is to suggest where they might find prospects for referrals. Suggest: “Perhaps there is someone in your rotary club or church, your gym or chamber group.” Then sit back and listen as they start to rattle off names and numbers. Write it all down, including the referrer’s relationship to the prospect.

If they do give you referral prospects, follow-up immediately with the prospect and thank the referrer. Send them a handwritten note, a gift or referral fee to express your gratitude.

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