You Must Set Limits on Your Time and Energy
Mary's mother demanded enormous amounts of her time, even though she was perfectly healthy. Instead of declining all the requested visits, Mary spent way too much time with her mother, ignoring her job, husband and health. She ended up sick and could not work. She desperately needed boundaries.
I often see very bright, accomplished professionals who are completely overwhelmed by the demands on their lives- especially women. With high pressure jobs, families, friends, volunteer work and aging parents, most of these folks are so stressed they are close to their breaking point. How can this be fixed? By setting healthy boundaries.
How to Set Boundaries:
• Start valuing your own time. Before you commit to anything, personal or professional, ask yourself these questions:
1. Do I want to do this?
2. Am I capable of doing this?
3. Is it the highest and best use of my time?
4. What do I have to give up to do this?
5. What happens if I don't say yes?
6. Will this stress me out further?
• Learn to say NO. When yet another volunteer opportunity comes your way, say "I appreciate your thinking of me., I only want to give you my best effort, and right now, I can't. May I recommend.... for this?"
• Value Your Own Need for Downtime You cannot be effective at your job, at home, as a parent, partner or friend if you are burnt-out. Play time, quiet time, nap time, meditation time- all of these give your brain critically needed detoxification. Furthermore, you are more likely to come up with new creative solutions when you step away from the work and relax.
Set boundaries and don't allow others to take advantage of you- you will be much happier and less stressed
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