Most of us are overwhelmed at work every day with “To Do” lists that never end. Mike Vardy, author and blogger, says to approach your list differently.
He says make a list of the top things you need to do this week, including work, family, personal, etc.with the answers to the question “Why do it” after each. Knowing the WHY instantly clarifies what has greatest value in your life. Then schedule your week.
All too often, we let the real priorities in our lives, people, loved ones, exercise, fun, slide under the overwhelm of work. And then we end up unhappy and unhealthy and resentful. Once you know why you want to do something, you can prioritize what is most important and be sure your to do list is meaningful for you.
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